About Character That CountsCharacter That CountsCTC_d58862c8-e645-11e4-ab4d-71c777fc742bMenEquipping men to fulfill their calling in their homes, marriages and professions.StudentsSeminars and materials to instruct teens/young adults (churches/ministries; public, private and home schools).AthletesAddressing the unique challenges that athletes face (professional, college, high school and junior high).CTC STAFFRod HandleyFounder and PresidentGreg GriffinVice President and TGIW Executive DirectorBill StutzDedicated Life CoachingSteve SheridanMission Wealthy WarriorsJanna HandleyAdministrative AssistantLaura MaxwellEditorCTC BOARDCTC has been blessed tremendously through a talented board of directors. We are grateful for their wisdom, expertise and love for the CTC ministry. Please pray for each of them as they give guidance and counsel, and as they lead their own families. The following people make up our Executive Board.Mike DeBackerMike is a Principal of Transportation for Burns & McDonald. They are blessed with four children.Darla DeBackerRod HandleyRod is the Founder and President of Character That Counts. He and Janna have four children, ages 14 year to 21 years old.Janna HandleyWilliam HannaWilliam is a partner with Stinson Morrison Hecker and one of the original accountability partners with Rod. He and Tanya are key leaders at Colonial Presbyterian Church. They have three children.Tanya HannaBrian HolmanBrian is a former MLB player with the Montreal Expos, Seattle Mariners and Cincinnati Reds. Brian travels the nation doing public speaking and he also gives pitching lessons to aspiring baseball players.Wade JacobsmaThe Jacobsma's have been a part of the Character Counts Couples Small Group with the Handley's, leading one of the couples groups for three consecutive years. Wade is an insurance adjuster with State Farm, Karen is a nurse in a pediatric's office. They have one daughter.Karen JacobsmaMark McWilliamsRod had the chance to perform their wedding ceremony many years ago. What an outstanding couple!! They have four children. Mark is the owner of United Heating & Cooling...the #1 residential heating and cooling company in the Greater Kansas City area. Patty is a former teacher and coach.Patty McWilliamsDan MeersDan & Cam Meers: Dan "KC Wolf" is a popular speaker in the metro area. He's in front of 200+ audiences annually as one of the key personalities for the Kansas City Chiefs. He and Cam have three children.Cam MeersBruce RehmerBruce and Sheri are both teachers and coaches and they have two sons. Bruce works in the Center School District and Sheri retired recently.Sheri RehmerJohn SchaferJohn is the owner of Stark Pharmacy. John and Suzie have two sons.Glen ScheibGlen is the President of Professional Accounting Services, a local CPA firm.CTC BOARD OF ADVISORS R.N. AllemanComcast, Denver, CODoug AndersonHallmark Cards, Kansas City, MOJoe CalhoonPresident--Priority Advantage, Kansas City, MORev. Dan DolquistSenior Pastor--Denver, CODr. Dan EricksonFounder and President--People Matter Ministries, Lee's Summit, MODon HilkemeierRetired, San Antonio, TXKyle Rote, Jr.Sports Agent and Former Pro Athlete, Memphis, TNDenny RydbergPresident--Young Life, Colorado Springs, CODal ShealyPast President--Fellowship of Christian Athletes, Jefferson City, TNMike SweeneyRetired, 5-Time MLB All-Star, San Diego, CAGeorge TolesPresident--The Toles Company, Seattle, WA_d5886552-e645-11e4-ab4d-71c777fc742bTo communicate the unique and critical message of character (doing right), integrity (being whole through Christ) and accountability (honestly reporting to one another) into our daily lives._d588666a-e645-11e4-ab4d-71c777fc742bACCOUNTABILITYBeing answerable to God and at least one other person for my behavior.ALERTNESSBeing keenly aware of the events taking place around me so that I can have the right responses to them.AMENDS(Repentance) Humbly acknowledging how you have fallen short of God's standard and seeking His forgiveness to make things right.ATTENTIVENESSShowing the worth of a person or task by giving my undivided concentration and effort.AUTHENTICITYBeing exactly who you claim to be with honesty and transparency.AVAILABILITYMaking my own schedule and priorities secondary to the wishes of those I serve.BENEVOLENCEGiving to others’ basic needs without expectations of personal reward.BOLDNESSDemonstrating the confidence and courage that doing what is right will bring ultimate victory regardless of present opposition.BONDINGConnecting with one another in an authentic way, avoiding unhealthy isolation.BOUNDARIESCreating a "safe place" or limitations that protect me from potentially unmanageable temptation.BREADTHHaving depth and broadness, in words and deeds, within the heart and mind.BROTHERLINESSExhibiting a kinship and disposition to render help because of a relationship.CANDORSpeaking the truth at the time when the truth should be spoken.CAUTIONKnowing to be alert in a hazardous or dangerous situation.CHEERFULExpressing encouragement, approval or congratulations at the proper time.CHIVALRYProtecting the weak, the suffering and the neglected by maintaining justice and rightness.COMMITMENTDevoting myself to following up on my words (promises, pledges or vows) with action.COMPASSIONInvesting whatever is necessary to heal the hurts of others by the willingness to bear their pain.CONFIDENCEPlacing full trust and belief in the reliability of a person or thing.CONSISTENCYFollowing constantly the same principles, course or form in all circumstances; holding together.CONTENTMENTAccepting myself as God created me with my gifts, talents, abilities and opportunities.COURAGEFulfilling my responsibilities and standing up for convictions in spite of being afraid.CREATIVITYApproaching a need, a task or an idea from a new perspective.DECISIVENESSLearning to finalize difficult decisions on the basis of what is right, not on what's popular or tempting.DEFERENCELimiting my freedom to speak and act in order to not offend the tastes of others.DEPENDABILITYFulfilling what I consented to do even if it means unexpected sacrifice.DETERMINATIONWorking intently to accomplish goals regardless of the opposition.DILIGENCEVisualizing each task as a special assignment and using all my energies to accomplish it.DISCERNMENTSeeking to use intuitive ability to judge situations and people; understanding why things happen to me and others.DISCIPLINEReceiving instruction and correction in a positive way; maintaining and enforcing proper conduct in accordance with the guidelines and rules.DISCRETIONRecognizing and avoiding words, actions and attitudes which could result in undesirable consequences.ENDURANCEExercising inward strength to withstand stress and do my best in managing what occurs in my life.ENTHUSIASMExpressing lively, absorbing interest in each task as I give it my best effort.FAIRNESS(EQUITY) Looking at a decision from the viewpoint of each person involved.FAITHDeveloping an unshakable confidence in God and acting upon it.FAITHFULNESSBeing thorough in the performance of my duties; being true to my words, promises and vows.FEAR OF THE LORDHaving a sense of awe and respect for Almighty God which goes above and beyond anyone or anything else.FIRMNESSExerting a tenacity of will with strength and resoluteness. A willingness to run counter to the traditions and fashions of the world.FLEXIBILITYLearning how to cheerfully change plans when unexpected conditions require it.FORGIVENESSClearing the record of those who have wronged me and not holding their past offenses against them.FRIENDSHIPComing alongside another person for mutual support and encouragement.GENEROSITYRealizing that all I have (time, talents and treasures) belongs to God and freely giving to benefit others.GENTLENESSLearning to respond to needs with kindness, personal care and love.GLADNESSAbounding in joy, jubilation and cheerfulness.GOAL-ORIENTEDAchieving maximum results toward the area where my effort is directed.GOODNESSHaving moral excellence and a virtuous lifestyle; a general quality of proper conduct.GRATEFULNESSMaking known to others by my words and actions how they have benefited my life.GREATNESSDemonstrating an extraordinary capacity for achievement.HOLINESSBeing whole with no blemish or stain.HONESTYProclaiming the truth with sincerity and frankness in all situations.HONORRespecting those in leadership because of the higher authorities they represent.HOPEFeeling that my deepest desire will be realized and that events will turn out for the best.HOSPITALITYSharing cheerfully food, shelter and life with those with whom I come in contact.HUMILITYSeeing the contrast between what is perfect and my inability to achieve that perfection.INDIGNATIONChanneling the driving passion of righteous anger without sinning.INITIATIVERecognizing and doing what needs to be done before I am asked to do it.INTEGRITYBeing whole and complete in moral and ethical principles.JOYFULNESSChoosing to be pleasant regardless of outside circumstances, which ultimately lifts the spirits of others.JUSTICETaking personal responsibility to uphold what is pure, right and true.KINDNESSDemonstrating a gentle, sympathetic attitude towards others.KNOWLEDGEBecoming acquainted with facts, truths or principles through study and investigation.LEADERSHIPGuiding others toward a positive conclusion.LOVEHaving a deep personal attachment and affection for another person.LOYALTYUsing difficult times to demonstrate my commitment to others or to what is right.MEEKNESSYielding my power, personal rights and expectations humbly with a desire to serve.NARROWNESSStaying within established boundaries and limits.NURTURECaring for the physical, mental and spiritual needs of others.OBEDIENCEFulfilling instructions so that the one I am serving will be fully satisfied and pleased.OPTIMISMConfident, hopeful and never doubtful.ORDERLINESSLearning to organize and care for personal possessions to achieve greater efficiency.ORIGINALITYCreating "new" thinking, ideas and expanding truths from an independent viewpoint.PASSIONATEHaving an intense, powerful or compelling emotion and feelings towards others or something.PATIENCEAccepting difficult situations and without demanding a deadline to remove it.PEACEFULBeing at rest with myself and others.PERSEVERANCEA continuing effort to do or achieve something despite difficulties, failure and opposition.PERSUASIVENESSGuiding another’s mental roadblocks by using words which cause the listener’s spirit to confirm the spoken truth.POISEBeing totally balanced in mind, body and spirit.PRAYERFULCommuning with God spiritually through adoration, confession, thanksgiving and supplication.PROSPERITYFlourishing or being successful, especially pertaining to financial issues.PRUDENCEExhibiting caution, humbleness and wisdom in regards to practical matters.PUNCTUALITYShowing respect for other people by respectfully using the limited time they have.PURE SPEECHSpeaking words that are clean, spotless and without blemish. PURITYFreeing yourself from anything that contaminates or adulterates.PURPOSEFULExercising determination to stay on track until the goal is achieved.REASONABLENESSHaving a sound mind by being level headed, sane and demonstrating common sense.RENEWALRestoration of strength through recovery and replenishment.RESOURCEFULNESSUsing wisely that which others would normally overlook or discard.RESTORATIONGetting a fresh start, or new beginning.RESPECTHonoring and esteeming another person due to deep admiration.RESPONSIBILITYKnowing and doing what is expected from me.REVERENCEGiving honor where it is due and respecting the possessions and property of others.RIGHTEOUSNESSActing in a moral and upright way that honors God, regardless of who is watching.SECURITYStructuring my life around what is eternal and cannot be destroyed or taken away.SELF-CONTROLBringing my thoughts, words, actions and attitudes into constant obedience in order to benefit others.SENSITIVITYBeing aware and attentive to the true attitudes and emotional needs of those around me.SERVANTHOODCaring for and meeting the needs of others before caring for myself.SINCERITYEndeavoring to do what is right, without ulterior motives.STEWARDSHIPAdministering and managing personal and financial affairs effectively.STRENGTHHaving power, force and vigor for the task assigned.SURRENDERYielding to the authority, guidance and direction of God in my life.TEACHABILITYDemonstrating a willingness to learn or be trained without any reservations or hindrances.THANKFULNESSExpressing deep gratitude and appreciation to people and to God.THOROUGHNESSExecuting something perfectly with the realization that each of my tasks will be reviewed. THOUGHTFULNESSShowing consideration for others through acts of kindness and/or words.THRIFTINESSPreventing myself or others from spending money unnecessarily.TOLERANCELearning to accept others as valuable individuals regardless of their maturity.TRANSPARENCYAllowing others to shine a light on my life for the purpose of being accountable.TRUTHFULNESSEarning future trust by accurately reporting past facts.TRUSTTRUST or TRUSTWORTHY: Believing completely and totally in someone or something.UNDERSTANDINGExhibiting strong intelligence and a sound mind in comprehending and discerning matters.UNSTOPPABLEThe freedom to perform at your highest level without any restraints.VIRTUEBuilding personal moral standards which will cause others to desire a greater moral life.VISIONARYDreaming not inhibited by the unknown. Looking beyond problems by creating successful solutions.VULNERABILITYBeing open to receive constructive criticism and guidance.WISDOMLearning to see and respond correctly to life situations with keen judgment; the application of knowledge.WORSHIPHonoring God reverently.SpeakingSpeak to groups on the issues of character, integrity and accountability_d5886746-e645-11e4-ab4d-71c777fc742b1Speaking: Rod is prepared to speak to your group on the issues of character, integrity and accountability. His presentations range from 5 minutes to 5 hours to 5 days. Multiple sessions are encouraged where participants can interact and discuss ideas with Rod and their peers. Available to speak at banquets, breakfasts, retreats, seminars, chapels, church services, small groups, keynote events, corporate events, etc. Comfortable speaking to men or women of all ages._d588687c-e645-11e4-ab4d-71c777fc742bTraining/ConsultingTrain and equip people with practical tools for implementing character, integrity and accountability into their lives and professions_d588698a-e645-11e4-ab4d-71c777fc742b2Training/Consulting: Rod is available to work with any organization, business, or church ministry in helping to train and equip people. He will give you practical tools for implementing character, integrity and accountability into your personal life and profession._d5886aa2-e645-11e4-ab4d-71c777fc742bBooksWrite books_d5886bd8-e645-11e4-ab4d-71c777fc742b3Writing: Rod has composed over 20 books and is in the process of writing additional books and resources to support the ministry. His materials have been featured in a number of publications, including the Christian Management Report. Articles are available upon request._d5886cf0-e645-11e4-ab4d-71c777fc742b2015-04-18http://www.characterthatcounts.org/whatwedonew.htmlOwenAmburOwen.Ambur@verizon.net